“I’m not a virgin.”
The day my husband confessed his sexual history to me, I sat quietly as he told me the truth. I wasn’t shocked. But I knew that – going forward – we’d need to work on our relationship in ways others would not.
Virginity has been at the forefront of the purity conversation for decades. While God has set standards for sex and expects purity from His followers, virginity itself is not His goal. God’s goal is holiness, which is why the question is not “How far is too far?” but “How holy can I be?”